How do you set goals?
Thank you for asking me this question.
My answer is not meant to be flippant, but what do you want? That is your goal.
You can ask this in many different areas of life.
What do you want your romantic life to look and feel like?
Your career, family friendships?
What ever you want it to be like, if it doesn't already look like that, then that might be a goal you set for yourself.
Hope that is helpful.